Guys to Gals Ratio

[noodlebug]

I love to be naked in mixed company. It's fun, it's relaxing, it's exciting because it's unconventional. It's also next to impossible!

It's like a Catch-22 situation. Most people posting here, most people who like being naked or nude, are men. We outnumber the women massively. The women who are here are mostly wives or partners of nudist guys, even if they aren't the last thing they want is a nudist guy to "buddy up" with.

Women who want to get involved in social nudity need to expect to be surrounded by men, and to get a lot of attention. That puts a lot of women off. For that reason, many clubs adopt a "mainly couples only" policy to keep the ratio at something where women can be comfortable. The single guys who want to get involved in social nudity events, or organise their own, usually end up with male-only events (or if there is a woman there, she's trapped at the centre of the crowd!). Personally, I don't find these events particularly appealing - you don't have to be a woman to feel intimidated by a large groups of naked men.

So most of us guys are doomed to be wallflowers - looking in from the outside, feeding off the crumbs of solo nudism or all-male nudism. If you are fortunate enough to have a wife, partner, family, or female friends who are happy to enjoy social nudism with you, spare a thought for the rest of us!