Gnibm, 61

Just me in Kilgore **Ignore the pic, its a badge pic and I look ticked off....I am a red headed but I do not have a temper and not pissed off.

I wish I could find that one lady that can love me for who I am and what I want to do in life for myself, my son, and her as well.

I am an average looking man, with normal goals and real dreams.

I wonder how do we find each other, where are you at? So many people dating, yet no one wants to give us what we need.

What do I need and want?...I need a 50/50 partner (sometimes a 60/40, sometimes 40/60), I need a friend, a best friend, a partner, someone to "huggle" (hug and snuggle) with, lay on the couch with.

You have yours, I have mine....but when we get to together I am there for you, you are there for me. Let me stand next to you thru life, let me stand in front of you when you need to be protected, let me stand behind you when you need my support, let me stand side by side with you and hold your hand as we walk thru the mall or park or the grocery store.

I want to fall in love, HMBS (Heart mind body and soul)and we need do it with each other, and we spend enough time away to appreciate the time we do have together.

Can you lay in bed with me, curl up in front of me, and let me run my fingers thru your hair until you fall alsleep, and not have it be a ------ thing and let me just hold you? Can you let me wrap my arm around you? Let me hear your baby snore as you fade off to sleep feeling safer that you have ever felt in your life.

Can you be a 50 50 partner in life and beyond?

I have worked for IBM for 15+ years as a Disaster Recovery Specialist and Solutions Architect. I own my home and car.

So I go from sweet and romantic to the work BS. LOL